Well it's okay if both parties are okay with it, like if it's only for fun, yea go ahead. But really, dont start assuming that an individual is stupid just because you are doing better. Be it in terms of academics or hands on activities, so what if you are better for not? There will always be people better than you. Well don't call people stupid because if you really think about it, you're the one thats stupid. Not only do you hurt thag person's feelings, you also, at the same time, jogged on one's memory that you are ryde, disrespectful and arrogant.
All you do is so observe the flaws of others, but little do you know, you have many flaws too. There is no reason why you should go around saying "hahahahh I'm in express stream while you're in normal technical, you're stupid!" Now, get this into your head, so what if someone is doing poorly in academics? Have you ever thought about it thoroughly? Maybe he or she, whoever you just made fun of, is better in sports, cutlery, hands on activities, art, music or any other talents? You have zero rights to be insulting someone.
Dont bother talking sense to fools, they'll only make fun of your words. Dont bother to rebuttal, your counterstatements doesn't matter. Whatever one says about you does not define you, neither should it be acknowledged by you. Ignore its existence, if it isn't true, it does not define you.
^Be it someone calling you fat, skinny, ugly, shitty, lousy, stupid, useless, unworthy, hopeless etc, whatever people say, really should not get into you.(getting into you as in, in your head, your thoughts; to affect your mood/thoughts etc)
Happy or sad, you will still have to call it a day at 12am sharp. So why would you spend seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, or even years to reminisce about what someone had said to insult you? Wouldn't it be better if you used the time that you took to be upset to go out and have some fun?
Keep yourself around people that brings the best out of you, not the ones that influences you and makes you doubt your own values. You are truly unique, everyone's unique. Be yourself, not imitate others wanting to be perfect, because those flaws and strengths of yours made you you! If there are anyone that are pulling you down, making you upset and all, they are not worth being in your life. Kick them out of your life and stay with the people that makes you carry the best of yourself out!
Be it hundreds of friends or only one, go by the quality and not the quantity. Being famous and popular doesnt qualify you automatically as a happy person. And having only one friend doesnt classify you as a lonely person. So just cherish whoever that truly deserves it instead of caring for plenty that does not deserve anything.
If someone wants to leave your life, let them go. Dont force them to stay, there is no poiny having the body of someone yet not the heart, mind and soul. Maybe that person means a lot to you, but letting go always hurt lesser than holding on.
And this is all I have to advice for now, do share it with your friends if you think they need it!
